If you are involved in a relationship with someone and you have a secret that you haven't told anyone, if/when is it appropriate to tell your lover? Under what circumstances?


lj August 02, 2006 5:25 PM  

well you should tell your lover if the secret effects your relationship in some way..When? You're the only one who has the answer to that one.

Diane Mandy August 03, 2006 2:01 PM  

I'm with lj... if I feel the need to share, I will. But for the most part, secrets I have will be kept to the grave.

fuzzy August 05, 2006 3:34 PM  

Its totally up to you. Sometimes a secret, if done porperly, should remain a secret. If you just have to tell your lover, then you have to pick a time when you know your lover is a proper position to handle your secret. Dont just spill it and hope for the best, because you'll be the one who gets splashed