Porno Dude/Funny Video

I met this guy at the club about 2-3 weeks ago. I had noticed him on weeks prior but had never had any conversation. I was dancing by myself when this one guy from Atlanta started dancing with me. We danced for a while until this other guy, who I will call J, came in between us and began dancing very provocatively. It was hot. We danced for a while until it became very evident that J wanted to dance with me by himself by "accidently" spilling a drink on the guy from Atlanta. Don't worry it wasn't that big of a scene but happened nonetheless. We danced a little longer and then went downstairs where there was ..... a lot of .... cavorting. I went home by myself (as I always do) but he was on my mind. Later while in my collection of videos (he he) I recognized a face. That's right, he was or is a porn star.

I know that it is considered taboo in the NYC dating scene but I called him the next day. He was so torn down that he didn't even remember who I am. However, we still talked a few times on the phone and had mediocre conversations . Last night I go out and I see him again. I go up to him and asked if he remembered me now. Of course, he didn't but remembered me from the phone conversations. He wasn't drunk this time so thought I would spend a little time with him to see what was up. We danced and talked for a while and it was not as hot and steamy as before but comfortable. He was more timid but still sexy to me. While dancing with him this time, I remembered that this is the same guy that I noticed dancing at another club over 2 years ago, before I moved here. At that time I was in a relationship but remember thinking that he was too phyne.

I am kind of at odds about what to do. One side of me says to just let go and whatever happens... After all I have been checking him out for over 2 years. The other side says, HE WAS OR IS A PORN DUDE.


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7 comments:

Delaleuverses June 09, 2006 7:21 PM  

I'm going to say to go for it, life is too damn short to wonder about what if's. Well, obviously you like him so put your foot down and be aggressive about it. He sounds finger-licking good, lol

ShawnQt June 11, 2006 12:58 PM  

I always believed all great relationships start off with chemistry, that spark of interest that you just feel when you two vibe.

If the vibe is not natural, then you will be trying to force things, when they really weren't there to begin with.

Vibe with him a little bit more, if nothing sparks... just let it go, there are plenty of attractive, creative, and intelligent men in the world!

fuzzy June 12, 2006 12:13 PM  

I agree with shawnqt, if there's nothing there dont make it appear. go into this thing with your eyes open remembering his past but not holding him to it at the same time. go a lil deeper and see what his intentions are and if they coincide with you and your personal goals.

Omar Ramon June 13, 2006 1:05 PM  

cute doesn't equal husband...alchohol doesn't equal chemstry. Even if he''s attractive..the convo was just mediocre...that doesn't quite cut it for the foundation of any kind of substantial future. Porn history aside...if you don't have a common ground...chances are you won't be able to walk together....get it?

Give yourself time to find a better match , TY. Trust me , your worth the wait.

Bougie Black Boy June 15, 2006 4:44 AM  

I think i'm more shocked that YOU go out to clubs than anything else. We MUST talk. :)

*Madosi June 15, 2006 5:53 AM  

Wow! Hmmm, how do I respond to this incident. I dunno. I mean I am not sure I could deal with, date someone who does porn.

NOW, if it is not that serious and we are just hanging out, talking and what have you, then its kool. However, nothing serious should come of it!

Ty June 15, 2006 10:09 AM  

Bougie - -
Yes, I go out from time to time. I am not a bar fly but enjoy dancing and swelling the crowd.

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